I can’t believe it’s 2023!
Looking back on 2022, I have to say it was a pretty good year for me. It was a bit of a year of saying “Yes” for me, by saying “Yes” to more things I wanted to do and things that took me out of my comfort zone, while also saying “No” to things that weren’t for me and getting better at setting boundaries. I got more involved in church this year, including joining the church I started attending in the fall of 2021. (Read more about that here.) I continued meeting and grew closer to some amazing people there. Got involved in small groups and volunteering, etc. and loved it. I got elected to the State Democratic Executive Committee! I’m very proud of that…I loved serving on the Jefferson County Democratic Executive Committee from 2018-2022, and with this position I get to continue serving on the county committee as well. We had some bright spots in the midterm elections in Alabama, especially here in Jefferson County. I got to travel more in 2022 than I have in a while, including going back to Vegas to see Shania Twain’s “Let’s go!” residency show before it ended. She is as amazing as ever…and I cannot wait for her upcoming album, Queen of Me, which comes out February 3, 2023! I loved the time I got to spend with friends and family as always, and I’m really proud of the work I did in therapy throughout the year. I’m happy to say I don’t have any major 2022 regrets. It’s my hope that 2023 brings each of us joy and peace! Best wishes for the new year. Here’s a look at some pop culture things I enjoyed this year. BOOKS I managed to read 30+ books this year, which I’m super proud of. Here are my five favorites that were released this year. With their third release, Casey McQusiton has quickly become one of my favorite authors. Golden Boys - Phil Stamper I Kissed Shara Wheeler - Casey McQuiston Left on Tenth - Delia Ephron Let’s Not Do That Again - Grant Ginder Remarkably Bright Creatures - Shelby Van Pelt MOVIES I have watched so few movies this year…but that’s pretty much always the case with me at this point in the year. I’ll be watching a ton over the next couple of months to prepare for the Academy Awards and you’ll get all my thoughts on 2022 films in my Oscars blog coming in March. I will shout out a few I did see this year. Shania’s documentary Not Just A Girl from Netflix was remarkable. I highly recommend it, even if you only have a casual relationship with her music. Her music and story are both incredibly inspiring. I did my best to support gay themed films this year – Bros, Fire Island, and The Holiday Sitter were all fun and I’d see them again. I saw some wonderful independent and locally made films at the Sidewalk Film Festival this year, and I also enjoyed the Bob’s Burgers movie. MUSIC New Shania music is coming in 2023 and we got a preview of her upcoming album (Queen of Me), plus a compilation album (Not Just A Girl – The Highlights) and songs from Beauty and the Beast - A 30th Celebration! Taylor Swift’s Midnights was by far my favorite original album release of the year. She continues churning out excellence. Other albums I enjoyed this year were Harry’s House from Harry Styles, Special from Lizzo, and Subject to Change from Kelsea Ballerini. Here are my 22 favorite songs from 2022! “2 Be Loved (Am I Ready)” - Lizzo “About Damn Time” - Lizzo “Anti-Hero” - Taylor Swift “As It Was” - Harry Styles “Beauty and the Beast” - Shania Twain “Bejeweled” - Taylor Swift “Heartfirst” - Kelsea Ballerini “Karma” - Taylor Swift “Last Day of Summer” - Shania Twain “Late Night Talking” - Harry Styles “Lavender Haze” - Taylor Swift “Light Switch” - Charlie Puth “Love Is A Cowboy” - Kelsea Ballerini “Music for a Sushi Restaurant” - Harry Styles “Not Just A Girl” - Shania Twain “Super Freaky Girl” - Nicki Minaj “Unholy” - Sam Smith and Kim Petras “Waking Up Dreaming” - Shania Twain “Weather” - Kelsea Ballerini “What He Didn’t Do” - Carly Pearce “Would’ve Could’ve Should’ve” - Taylor Swift “You’re Drunk, Go Home” - Kelsea Ballerini with Kelly Clarkson and Carly Pearce TELEVISION There are so many (so, so many) TV shows I need to watch and catch up with. I continued my trend of rewatching some of my favorites (The Golden Girls, Happy Endings, Schitt’s Creek, The West Wing) instead of a lot of newer shows. I’ll get to them when I get to them! There were a few I really loved this year though, so here’s a small sample of my favorites. Abbott Elementary The Gilded Age Grace & Frankie Gutsy Hacks Heartstopper Love, Victor Our Flag Means Death White Lotus What were your favorite pop culture moments of 2022? What kept you entertained this year? Tell me in the comments!
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It's that time of year again -- time to recap my favorite things of 2019! It's been a year of a lot of ups and downs, but isn't that just life?
BOOKS: Another year of not getting around to reading all the things I want to read. There are just so many books! Here are my top ten books that came out in 2019. Bending Toward Justice: The Birmingham Church Bombing that Changed the Course of Civil Rights - Doug Jones Call My Name - Heather Wyatt (My best friend has another book out! This is a fantastic book of poetry and you can buy it by clicking here.) Hold My Hand - Michael Barakiva Invisible Women: Data Bias in a World Designed for Men - Caroline Criado Perez Isthmus: Poems - Margaret King The Lady’s Guide to Petticoats and Piracy - Mackenzi Lee The Music of What Happens - Bill Konigsberg Over the Top: A Raw Journey to Self-Love - Jonathan Van Ness Red, White and Royal Blue - Casey McQuiston (My favorite novel of 2019 -- I read it twice! You can buy it by clicking here.) Too Much Is Not Enough - Andrew Rannells Here are some honorable mentions: (These are some of the books that have been out a while that I read for the first time in 2019.) China Rich Girlfriend - Kevin Kwan (2015) The Hate U Give - Angie Thomas (2017) In Pieces - Sally Field (2018) Paper Towns - John Green (2008) Sharp Objects - Gillian Flynn (2006) MOVIES: You'll get a full recap when I preview the Oscars in early February (aren't you excited?!), but here are a few things I've liked so far: Trading Paint which starred Shania Twain in her first major acting role, and the Mindy Kaling penned Late Night starring Emma Thompson. MUSIC: My favorite album of 2019 is Taylor Swift's Lover. I don't buy or download as many full-length albums as I used to, but Lover is one that I've enjoyed from start to finish. Here are my top twenty songs of the year. “Be Alright” - Dean Lewis “Cool” - Jonas Brothers “Good As Hell” - Lizzo “High Hopes” - Panic! At the Disco “homecoming queen?” - Kelsea Ballerini “I Warned Myself” - Charlie Puth “Look What God Gave Her” - Thomas Rhett “Lover” - Taylor Swift “ME!” - Taylor Swift feat. Brendon Urie “Never Really Over” - Katy Perry “Old Town Road” - Lil Nas X feat. Billy Ray Cyrus “Only Human” - Jonas Brothers “Shania Twain” - Aura Dione “Sucker” - Jonas Brothers “Sweet but Psycho” - Ava Max “Thank U, Next” - Ariana Grande “Truth Hurts” - Lizzo “Want You in My Room” - Carly Rae Jepsen “Wow.” - Post Malone “You Need To Calm Down” - Taylor Swift (My favorite song and music video of 2019! Click here to listen and watch the music video.) TELEVISION: My top fifteen shows of 2019: Big Little Lies BoJack Horseman Broad City Brooklyn Nine-Nine The Crown The Good Place Grace & Frankie Killing Eve The Morning Show The Other Two (My favorite TV show of 2019.) Schitt’s Creek Stranger Things Superstore Veep Watchmen The end of the year means it's time to recap the year and look back on what kept me entertained in 2018! It's been a wonderful year personally -- I will be an uncle again next year, my best friend published her first book and got engaged, and I met a wonderful man who I'm lucky enough to call my boyfriend. I can't wait to see what's in store for 2019! But first, here are my favorite things entertainment-wise from 2018.
BOOKS: I didn't read quite as much as I did in 2017, or quite as much as I wanted to, but these are my Top 5 books from 2018.
Here are some honorable mentions: I just got autobiographies from Michelle Obama (Becoming) and Sally Field (In Pieces), so they didn't make the cut -- but I'm certain I'll love them! Crazy Rich Asians - Kevin Kwan A few years old, but I read it in anticipation of the film release and loved it! The Mother of Black Hollywood - Jenifer Lewis This book came out at the end of 2017, but I read it early this year. It is laugh out loud funny, and offers a unique perspective on mental illness. MOVIES: I tend to binge watch movies during award show season, so I won't have my full take on 2018 movies until February just before the Academy Awards. But, so far this year, Love, Simon has been my favorite movie! I also really loved Crazy Rich Asians, Deadpool 2, Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again, and the documentary RBG. MUSIC: By far my favorite musical event of 2018 was the Shania Now Tour, which I was lucky enough to see twice! Now was also by far the album I listened to the most this year, even though it came out in the fall of 2017. As for this year, Golden Hour by Kacey Musgraves tops my list of best albums released. It is a magnificent work of art. I also really enjoyed Cher's ABBA covers album, Dancing Queen, and The Greatest Showman: Reimagined. These are my Top 20 singles of the year:
Honorable Mentions: "Beg" by Jack & Jack, "Havana" by Camila Cabello, and "Tequila" by Dan + Shay TELEVISION: My Top 10 shows of 2018: Altered Carbon Brooklyn Nine Nine Fresh Off The Boat Grace and Frankie Insecure Marvelous Mrs. Maisel Queer Eye Real Country Schitt's Creek Superstore 2018 MIDTERM ELECTIONS: And finally, here is a list of my favorite 18 winners from the 2018 elections!
Let’s be honest – 2017 was a depressing year, especially after Inauguration Day. It’s been a frightening and sad year with a lot of highs and lows, but luckily I did have things to entertain and inspire me throughout 2017. Here’s a list of what I enjoyed and what kept me going during the year entertainment-wise.
BOOKS I made a goal to read at least 30 books in 2017, which I did! About half of the books I read were new releases, and the other half were older books that had been on my To-Be-Read list for a while. Here are my favorite ten books of 2017.
MUSIC For me, the biggest music event of 2017 was Shania Twain releasing Now, her first studio album in 15 years! I’m still loving all 16 tracks on the epic album and I encourage you to listen to it if you haven’t yet. I also loved albums from Kelsea Ballerini, Thomas Rhett, and Taylor Swift this year. Here’s a rundown of my 17 favorite songs of 2017.
Honorable Mentions
PEOPLE With the current disaster in the White House, it was important to have other sources of inspiration to look to. Women really lead the charge and the resistance in 2017, and here are 17 women who deeply inspired me this year.
TELEVISION I didn’t watch as much TV as I have in the last few years, but here are my 17 favorite shows of 2017.
To truly appreciate this album one must understand how long it’s been since Shania Twain released her last studio album, UP!, and everything she’s been through in those 15 years. For a little perspective—Barack Obama was a state senator from Illinois, Taylor Swift wasn’t even a teenager yet, and Facebook was two years away from taking off. In that time, Shania lost her husband/producer to an affair he was having with her best friend. She contracted Lyme disease which led to neurological damage to her vocal chords. It’s been a long 15 years with epic highs and lows. She’s remarried now, and she’s achieved a lot in those 15 years professionally despite being out of the limelight. She had an epic Vegas residency from 2012-2014, and a record breaking tour in 2015. Aptly titled, Shania’s new album reflects what she’s been through and where she is Now. As she’s stated in interviews, this is not a divorce album. Sure, there are references in many of the songs, but this album is so much more. It’s a remarkable journey of strength, endurance, and perseverance in spite of seemingly insurmountable obstacles. The album starts off with the rocking “Swingin’ With My Eyes Closed” which she says came from the fighter within her. That fighting spirit is evidenced in many of the album’s 16 tracks, along with typical Shania optimism. She doesn’t shy away from the heartbreak and sadness, though. There are plenty of songs that will leave you devastated. Shania has a history of breaking down barriers and not neatly fitting into rigid labels, and Now highlights that in the best way. The blending of genres is one of Shania’s greatest strengths. The music doesn’t need to be defined by a style other than Shania herself. She is her own genre, and there’s something for everyone. There’s country, dance, gospel pop, R&B, and even reggae influences on this album. Admittedly, my expectations were high for Shania’s comeback. I, and other Shania fans, have waited patiently and we all had high hopes. All of those expectations were exceeded even with the preview tracks and the release of the first two singles. After getting to experience the album as a whole, I was more than satisfied. From start to finish this album is truly a masterpiece and a gift. It’s relatable even when a song’s specific circumstances haven’t been experienced personally. Listening to Now from beginning to end takes the listener on a rollercoaster of emotions, much like Shania (and most people for that matter) has been through over the last decade and a half. There’s a feeling I get when listening to the closing track “All In All” much like the feeling I get when I read a really great novel. I’m so happy to experience the entire thing, but I grieve for it once it’s over. I’m left fulfilled, but still crave more. Shania proves once and for all that she is the driving creative force in her career and has been all along. Many have tried to dismiss her as a puppet, but as the solo songwriter of the entire album, and her first venture in co-producing, her artistry cannot be denied. Now is pop music at its finest. TRACK BY TRACK Review 1. “Swingin’ With My Eyes Closed” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Ron Aniello What a banger! From the moment she debuted this song on Today back in June, I was in love with it. It’s got that typical Shania attitude to it, and it’s a great song to kick off the album. The percussion at the beginning is like a hybrid “We Will Rock You” married with throwback Shania classics “Any Man Of Mine” and “Honey, I’m Home,” with a reggae feel thrown in for good measure. It’s a soaring song musically with lush, catchy hooks and background vocals. Also, who else but Shania could create such an epic violin solo in the middle of a song?! 2. “Home Now” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Matthew Koma, and Ron Aniello Breezy, light, and catchy. The perfect song for those that love when Shania shows off her country roots. It’s got a fun acoustic feel with lots of guitar, banjo, fiddles and violins. 3. “Light Of My Life” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jake Gosling I love the funky groove of the verses of this song, but it really shines when it gets to the chorus. It takes a different pace musically, sounding like a peppy Beck or REM song. The background vocal in the chorus are Shania perfection, along with the “Mhmms” in the verses. The lyrics are all too relatable for anyone (like me) who crushes hard on someone who doesn’t even know they exist. 4. “Poor Me” Written: By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jake Gosling Lyrically, this is one of the rawest songs Shania has ever released. The first time I heard it I was absolutely heartbroken. It’s definitely one of the darkest songs on the album, but set to an R&B infused pop beat with a clever twist of words. So many lyrical phrases on this song send a jolt right to the gut. 5. “Who’s Gonna Be Your Girl” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Matthew Koma, and Ron Aniello Vocally this is one of my favorite performances on the album. It showcases Shania’s range and highlights the best parts of her voice. To me it’s a more melodramatic prequel to “Forever And For Always.” I really love the use of the baritone guitar in this song. 6. “More Fun” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jacquire King An understated weekend party anthem. I think of this as a funky follow-up to “C’est La Vie.” Different musically from anything we’ve heard from Shania. Really highlights the diversity of the album. 7. “I’m Alright” Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Ron Aniello Another devastating song lyrically in the verses, but hopeful and optimistic in the chorus. An absolute favorite of mine. The chorus gives me chills and the background vocals on the second verse are fantastic. I love the deep rhyming notes in each verse, too. Beautiful musically – with a cello! Then we get the gospel tinged climactic last chorus (that reminds me of the climax of “I Ain’t Goin’ Down”). It makes me want to repeat it immediately. 8. “Let’s Kiss And Make Up” (Deluxe Version only) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Ron Aniello, and Dan Book Flugelhorns, ukuleles, and Shania, oh my! This is such a fun tropical dance bop. It’s a sweet, but melancholy love song with a perfect groove that makes it impossible to sit still. Reminiscent of Omi’s hit “Cheerleader.” Much deeper lyrically than the music and title suggest. 9. “Where Do You Think You’re Going” (Deluxe Version only) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Ron Aniello and Jake Gosling You would never know Shania had any vocal issues listening to this song. This is a knockout vocal performance. Lyrically, it’s another devastating song. It starts out as a sultry ballad, but turns into so much more in the choruses. It’s haunting and listening to it gave me chills all over. It’s one of the most emotional and beautiful songs of Shania’s career. I love the soaring crescendo of strings as the song nears its end. 10. “Roll Me On The River” (Track 8, Standard Version) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Matthew Koma, and Ron Aniello Another funky, genre defying banger from Shania. I love the subtle banjo throughout the song and the violins are put to such great use. A really unique song musically, and totally sexy lyrics. This song is smokin’. 11. “We Got Something They Don’t” (Track 9, Standard Version) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jacquire King I love the empowerment of this song lyrically. Musically it is the perfect song to turn up and jam out to. I love the mix of high and low harmony background vocals. I love the horns in the musical break and the fake out—just when you think it’s almost done here comes a kickass trumpet solo, followed by a brilliant final climactic chorus. 12. “Because Of You” (Deluxe Version only) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jake Gosling A really sweet introspective love song. Understated but beautiful vocal performance. 13. “You Can’t Buy Love” (Track 10, Standard Version) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jake Gosling Only Shania can turn the cliché “When life gives you lemons” into something new and clever! This is a fun, upbeat song with a 60s pop/rock feel to it. This song will definitely make you smile, and I love the happy “Yeah!” at the end. 14. “Life’s About To Get Good” (Track 11, Standard Version) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain, Matthew Koma, and Ron Aniello I’ve been listening to this song for five months now over and over and I still love it each time! I love the depth of the lyrics on the verses and the joyful happy catchiness of the chorus. The banjo throughout this song is so great! I love the gospel musical break in this song, too, and the buildup back to the chorus for the finale. It was a great song for Shania to release first to preview the album and sums up her life in the past few years so well. 15. “Soldier” (Track 12, Standard Version) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jacquire King Another beautiful, sweet ballad. Another powerful vocal performance and haunting musically. 16. “All In All” (Deluxe Version only) Written By: Shania Twain / Produced By: Shania Twain and Jacquire King Lyrically this might be my favorite song on the album. It’s so relatable and contemplative. I love the self-reflection and I think it’s a perfect way to wrap up such a raw, personal album. I love the light, lush, tropical feel of the song musically and it reminds me a bit of Toto’s “Africa” in parts. Click here to purchase or stream Now. In the spring of 1996, shortly before I turned 11 years old, I began my seventh year of playing Little League baseball. There were good years and bad years, but generally speaking I wasn’t very good at sports. It’s not a unique story—overweight, unathletic kid who got picked last, etc. My grandmother promised me she’d buy me a new CD for getting through another year of baseball. (She had a long history of rewarding me with prizes even when I didn’t necessarily deserve anything.) This promise thrilled me! I had just been getting into music after I got a CD player for Christmas when I was 9 years old, and I loved going to Musicland/Sam Goody in the local mall. I was pretty sure I wanted the Dangerous Minds soundtrack because of the song “Gangsta’s Paradise.” But, after one more trip to the music store I found something else. At the time, the only new music I listened to was country music because that’s what my parents listened to. I only knew pop and rap songs that were wildly popular if I heard them at school or through a friend. So, most of my music collection was country. I browsed the country music section and saw a CD by Shania Twain. I knew a few of her songs so I picked up the album titled Shania Twain and glanced at the track list. I didn’t know any of those songs. I did the same with The Woman In Me and there were quite a few songs on it I liked. Her massive hit “Any Man of Mine” was a favorite and it turned out she also sang “Whose Bed Have Your Boots Been Under?” (I thought the latter was performed by someone like Pam Tillis…”Any Man of Mine” was the first Shania song I was familiar with.) I decided The Woman In Me was the CD I wanted and relayed that decision to my grandmother. A few days later when my mom picked me up from baseball practice, the shrink-wrapped newly purchased CD was sitting in the passenger seat waiting on me. I remember that moment, but I don’t remember listening to the album the first time. I do remember completely falling in love. It was the first CD I owned that I could listen to from beginning to end without skipping any songs. Every song on that album was amazing to me. I listened to it day in and day out, flipping through the CD booklet and obsessing over the lyrics. I had never heard music this wonderful! Shania’s voice and songwriting completely captivated me. I became an instant and lifelong fan. It’s no coincidence that just a few months later, I wrote my very first song. These days I don’t write song lyrics that often, but I can trace my love of writing back to The Woman In Me. I was overwhelmed and inspired. I ended up getting her first CD later and of course loved it, too. I’ve been a devoted Shania fan for over 20 years now and her music isn’t the only inspiring thing about her. Her resilience amazes me. She’s been through such extreme lows and traumas in her life, yet she always bounces back and stays optimistic. That optimism is what helps get me going somedays. I love the cheerfulness in Shania’s music. Even in many of her darker more raw songs, she provides a silver lining to see that light at the end of the tunnel. The first single from her upcoming album Now does just that. “I wasn’t just broken, I was shattered,” she sings on “Life’s About To Get Good.” But, clearly with that title, things don’t stay that way for long. “Life’s About To Get Good’ is the mantra I need in such bleak times. Even though that particular song was more than 20 years away from being written and released, receiving The Woman In Me was a symbol that life was about to get good for me. I read a study recently that showed people with anxiety are more prone towards obsessions. It made total sense to me. Obsessing over Shania’s music and career have often been a great distraction when other things in my life weren’t so great. Even as I write this, it’s hard to put into writing just how much her music and story has meant to me. I can point to examples like getting her CD above, or reading her interview in The Advocate when I was a closeted teenager (and how few straight music stars would grant their time to LGBT publications), but mostly it’s just that her music has been a consistent source of enjoyment and happiness for me since I discovered it. For those of you who aren’t as familiar with Shania, first of all, go download her Greatest Hits album right now. You won’t be disappointed. Secondly, her upcoming album is her first studio album in 15 years. That’s why Shania fans are totally freaking out! We’ve been waiting very patiently for this. I remember the five year wait between Come On Over and UP! and how that felt like agony, but that’s nothing compared to this! Shania has teased new music for several years now. We finally got a definitive release date scheduled earlier this year and she debuted her new single at the Stagecoach music festival in California, and then on Today in June. I wasn’t sure what to expect and I was a little apprehensive. Any doubts I may have had were gone completely once I heard “Life’s About To Get Good.” For the six weeks after the performance at Stagecoach leading up to the release of the single on iTunes, I played the live version repeatedly. I couldn’t get enough! She’s released three other promo tracks which are equally as great, and previewed snippets of a few other songs from Now as well. I can’t wait to download the full album later this week and finally hold a brand new Shania Twain CD in my hands. I know, because Shania promised me, that life’s about to get good. |
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